I am not being nice. I know I’m not being nice and I should probably find a way to be nice, but a good friend told me, “don’t be nice, be good”. I don’t think they meant “be mean”. I’m fairly certain they meant that nice anyone can do. It’s not an ethical dilemma to be nice. But being good is hard. Regardless, ramble ramble, I am not being nice. The energy it would take me to be nice is not on my current tank. That tank is empty and filled with exploding cave spiders. Flame covered ones. With short fuses.
So I know I’m not being nice. And I need to do something about that. Just not sure now is the right time.